Why do people break up

Why do people break up

Why do people break up? People wonder why people ever break up. They go on crying and dissecting and analyzing why did they ever break up. Relationships start out as happy and sappy and pleasant but in the end turn sour and cold. People fall out of love or find someone else or grow distant. But how can you ever know what really caused your break up?

Break ups are messy. They hurt you and tear you apart. They cause you to turn from a glam and pretty lady to a total psycho. It turns you the sensible gentle man into a sniveling slob. Break ups ruin and destroy even the sanest of all people.

But why? Because when you breakup with someone, you rip out a part of you that is vital. Breaking up destroys your heart and soul. There are a lot of reasons why people break up. Some are fortunate enough to just get tired of one another and fall out but not get shattered.

On the other hand there are those breakups which are hellish and bloody. These are the types of break ups that cause writers to write great books about.

Cheating – Cheating is one of the dirtiest and bloodiest reasons for a break up. A woman may scream, throw stuff or even turn murderous because of it. Cheating goes beyond the break up. It causes so much pain that it can even carry scars up to the succeeding relationships.

Money – Yes, money can be a cause of intense breakups. In the beginning of a relationship, money may not matter but men may leave a woman who treats them like an ATM machine. Women may also leave men who are spineless and cannot put in their share for the rent.

Nagging – A person who is constantly bombarded by someone with nagging and screaming will eventually blow their fuse off. They will get fed up. And when a person gets really upset with all the nagging, he or she can run amok and turn into a monster.

Lying – Constant lying will turn the kindest soul into a lunatic. Lying causes so much hurt in a relationship.